Real success

Must be Strong

Many people are satisfied with life as it is traveled. Although they want to make changes to give more life fulfillment, their desire is not strong enough for one particular direction. Because the strength of their spread, meaning that no results can be achieved. Many people who do not do business because it believes that the changes towards a better situation outside their reach. That is the situation, whether the desired improvements to the environment or special fiber development.

Before doing something, we must have the desire to do so. Like when we want to take something and have to walk to that place. Without the desire to rise up and walk from place to sit, we can not be achieved. Perhaps you have a desire for something, but memories of frustration and hatred in the past does not create feelings of frustration or powerless.

We must be able to expect the desire to achieve and focus all attention on the desire. If you want to move from one desire to another desire, to return to the main target. The next step is to perform the visualization. To create a mental image of an object, we only need to know what it's like. Next, make sure that what we want us. Take concrete steps to realize. Then biasakan grateful or grateful, even if the target has not been reached.

William James to give a statement, "You are not happy because beryannyi; happy because you sing." How someone feels up to the limit of very large people can determine how he acts. As individuals, we have the power to change and improve the situation that we constantly face in life. Mental attitude which is developed can be used to respond to new circumstances you want to visit. Some people call this consistency in the law or the law responding to one another.


Principles of balanced Self Updates

The principle of balance is a practice that emphasizes the importance of efforts to renew itself in the dimensions of physical, spiritual, mental, and social / emotional in the balance. Dimensional physical body is our ability, and ability. Physical dimensions of the effective through eating nutritious food, berolah sports, and rest. Spiritual dimension to the core, and our commitment to the value system. Dimensions provide inspiration, encouragement. Updates spiritul dimensions can be done with meditation, reading books that inspire (spiritual, literature), pray, and natural beauty. This activity aims to expand and develop the values of our lives.

Dimensions include mental insight, ability to think, the ability to reveal themselves effectively. Updates mental dimension can be done with the news and the new information, read the science and literature, science, writing and opinions / views, and plan something. Dimensions of social / emotional, including the ability to live with others, to contribute - to serve one another, and work with them. Togetherness with other people involved feelings (emotions). Dimensions sosisal / emotional development can do something together with or against other people directly or indirectly.

Updates are principles that guide us to always move up to top on the development and improvement continues. Move along the spiral to make us learn, build commitment, and do something on a higher stage.

Ethics and ethical character Mask

There are two ways to achieve success in life. The first way is to learn or develop a number of basic principles and integrated into the mold so that we can do in everyday life. Basic principles of honesty, humility, faithfulness, self control, courage, justice, patience, diligence, modesty, decorum, and fair play. This is more difficult and long, but will result in unmitigated success and eternal happiness. Overall this is called the basic principles of character ethics.

How the two techniques is the "sell themselves" and develop the mental attitude "lick." Here, success is determined more by good impression, attitude and behavior-sweet, interesting, technical ability and relationship with other people. This is easier and faster, but a full engineering and even deceptive, encouraging people to use tricks to make other people like himself, pretend to take the heart to get what you want from other people, or using pressure and threats. Way that does not result in unmitigated success and eternal bliss called ethics mask.

Before viewing the characters of others, we need to see themselves. such as what characters we? Is mask-masks that we still use to cover your face?

death

Yesterday I attended the funeral ceremonies of the family who died. I am in that place with the relatives who still live in the real world, and relatives who have died marked with a stone marker that reads them. Pensive when I remember many people who do not own property, but there are other people too much money and wealth. There are many stories of corruption, criminal, murder, and others. So what will be taken when death comes? Wealth, famous, love, sacrifice, or what?

Improve the quality of life

When I travel to the Borobudur Temple looks right on the left side of the relief that our lives. At every level of the same features of human behavior. At that time I stop, I feel that this place is not just piles of stone. when life is not taken to be the better man to death will not reach the top level (policy-perfection). I feel this place (Borobudur temple) is not only belong to a particular religion, but belong to all mankind. each person can learn self-reflection to the level of life and a better quality. Where the quality of our lives?

Study room

In the middle of the modern era, and they are busy with various, sometimes we often say that it is very easy to learn. But in reality it is difficult we learn from mistakes. improve the state of things that one is normal, but we are sometimes difficult to improve, even just to accept that it is a mistake. Desk-chair in the study we often empty, because welearn that is not in place, or do not want to learn to improve themselves to become better. What we want to study in the room (at heart) our own? whether we are ready to fill the vacuum space hearts of our lives?

Lifestyle Options

Those who succeed in life always develop daily habits to achieve what you want. Habit is a behavior pattern which consists of three components that include: knowledge, attitudes and skills. The habit is the result of the learning process, not the prize is revealed. We do not need to become victims of circumstances or background of our education. As humans, we are responsible for our own lives. Humans have self-awareness, imagination, conscience, and will be free. Behavior is the result of personal decisions. We must move with the values that we have to think carefully, selection, and biological. To qualify, people need to: understand, accept, condone, control, self esteem, develop themselves, and share themselves with each other.

Development of quality of life obstacles: self-love, self jactitation (hypocrite), moral parochialism (most rate their own good), and incarcerate themselves (low self esteem, negative self-view, does not accept with gratitude what is owned and experienced, people worried about the assessment own, seeking recognition and acceptance of others, and fear). How do we face obstacles that come?

Many difficulties are actually made by our own, although we maybe difficult to accept. We have difficulty with choosing to be in a certain place, and consequently if we have the difficulty, and then we meet with the favor to yourself. All can be avoided if we can make a different choice. What choice of your life now?

Stock that you need In Finding a Leader

Search and see

Pelikan is a bird that superlative fishing. But sometimes it does not need to make the fish to get food in as many fish canning factory. But the frightening thing happens when fish began to run out and close the factory. Birds too long because itdoes not catch fish, they become fat and lazy, difficult to fish that are available, so one by one they die. Various groups of nature lovers try to save, time to have an idea for importing birds from other regions pelikan. The result is extraordinary. The new Pelikan immediately hunt fish quickly, and slowly starve the pelikan also hunt fish. And finally all pelikan live there again with the hunt.

Les Giblin, human relations experts say that people learn something from the five senses of the tool; 1% of sense, touch from 1.5%, 3.5 of smell, 11% of the hearing, and 83% of the vision. John C Maxwel, expert leadership to prove that, someone can take 5% due to the crisis, 10% natural bounty, and 85% due to the influence of their leaders.


Stock and Leader insight

Leadership at any level, from the lowest level to achieve the highest level, will affect us in the teeth, performance, and productivity. Before serving as leader, the ability of the different. There are leaders who do not have any stock, small, medium, and actually have enough stock. Before serving, he must follow a leader and involved in leadership. He has been educated and trained in leadership. He was interested and ready to discipline themselves to become leaders. And according to personal observation and experience, he has talent in the field of leadership. Regardless of the ability to affect the implementation of leadership and in turn will affect the performance of all the people who are led.

Based on the broad knowledge, there are 4 types of leaders. Leader, not a conception of the future to perform its duties based on the traditions and customs applicable in the institution. If there are new things and challenges, it was thought that the spontaneous decline or not. There is also a leader butdoes not do anything to realize the lazy, do not want to work, fear of risk, or has been satisfied, and security work in the old pattern. As leaders who have insight and act to realize, he continues to imagine, dream of the future, and seeks the implementation of a strategy, butdoes not include subordinate / person. As a subordinate / akan people hesitate, and ask what to do. Leaders together to share insight and always subordinate to the subordinate, plan and strategy, and take steps to realize the shared subordinate. Consequences as a subordinate to get more tasks and responsibilities as they should be actively involved.


Leader attributes

Attributes also affect the achievement of those who are led. First, the nature of learning and will continue to affect the self-important for the leaders because the leaders are always so up-to-date and able to answer the challenge of evolving and growing. Second, work and service orientation to be alive. As a leader in life-oriented and work well, money is not used as the main objective in the work. If money is the main goal is made, the form of products and services can be. Wise words that make people have the attitude of respect and honor one-rod is not necessary, but love, not authoritarian attitudes, but attitudes to serve, but not with the threat of a precedent.

Third, balanced lifestyle. This means that the proportional elements combine physical, emotional, mental and spiritual, and develop balance. Leaders who do not behave like this in the face of the problems that extreme, and unfair in deciding this issue. Fourth, trust the subordinate. We believe leaders can work together with us, together and form a synergy to reach the goal. Fifth, the views about the meaning of life. Meaning of life to be key in the life and behavior. Leaders idealist view of life as a growing field, and useful, and will not make a living as a field to get something to satisfy themselves and meet their own needs.


Level of coverage and Leadership

High-level leadership on the stand or when running leadership. Position-oriented leader (leadership status) on the basis of status or position as a leader. Which makes it special is the employment office, the scope of the rights and authority, protocol, tradition, customs, institutions and discipline. This level of leadership, leadership in implementing, such as the use of power and often use the threat of intimidation, and violence. Many of those allergic to critical and difficult to work with subordinate / people that are not in line with the thinking. One-way communication model, the form of guidance, instructions and commands. Relationship-oriented leadership (leadershiphuman relations ) is a key link with the people he set. By maintaining and developing good relationships with people that he set, he was able to implement effective leadership and durable. Trends such as this is sure to lead the task, and goals will be achieved is a problem because the agency is busy building a good relationship and prevent conflict.

Leadership-oriented production (of production), the central concern is the level of performance, products, and achieving the results attained, the target is an institution. Subordinate not only related to one another well, but work together to achieve shared goals, then create a spirit in our work (subordinate). Oriented leadership in the development of human resources (human resource development leadership) successfully formed a good relationship with the subordinate, and can bring us (subordinate) for the purpose of institutions and develop human resources. Thank you for the attention of superiors, subordinate to feel valued and trusted. Four level is our leader.

Scope of leadership is a matter that becomes part and task leaders. This includes the private sector, inter-personal, managerial, and organization. Leadership positiondoes not , but the service, to succeed in the task of leadership, it will require leadership field so that we as a subordinate / people believe in the ability of leadership, and finally, we are also encouraged to follow the guidance and instructions. Because the front and walk in front, should be a superior role model to be adopted and the example in behavior and work patterns.

The leaders also are expected to have a look at the credibility of the action. If leaders have credibility, we (subordinate / person) will be involved and have a feel (comunited) from the institution / country, has a spirit, and faithful. If the leaderdoes not have credibility, we will work with low motivation. Ramose attitude, praise in public, but not proud in the heart of the same and even save disappointment.


Task Leader

Writer R. Ng. Ranggawarsita, a famous poet Surakarta era of 19th century claim 8 task (service) leadership.

Anguripi (turn) means that respect and protect life in accordance of law. Making all developed independently of birth and inner harmony, applythe meaning of life , mutual respect, and to live together. Angrungkepi (tight squeeze) berrmakna control, prosecute, defend with all his power. Leader at least has the authority to organize and build a system of strong and cohesive, disciplined and humble, and able to control. Angruwat (prevent crime), the effort to give a bad situation. Physical effort to implement real and sustainable steps in cooperation with various parties. Spiritual and held prayer request that God bless and sanctify.

Anata (top), which describes the framework regulations in many areas of the applicable fair, and true to all. Build and work well in place, discipline, honesty, planned, and gradually to all. Sending people live healthy and organized with a sincere and real examples. Amengkoni (series), and unify all citizens so that they do not separate and lost. Maintain the sovereignty and autonomy remains with the friendship and cooperation with all external parties. Angayomi (shade), which create a sense of security and comfortable living, learning and work, effort and time to take a break and introspective life of faith. Angurubi (make up, warm and sunny), the attitude follow truth, honest and tidy, so that the characters themselves, and remove the careless behavior. Spark spirit live, learn, work, achievement, and useful for all. Amemayu (beautify), namely to maintain harmony, embellish, expand and improve their lives and all natural, all the opportunities to grow and develop optimally.

Indeed, high service and high, but it is ideal for a leader. Leader who is not only our boss, because in all of our environment and be a leader and subordinate.

Act! not just talk only

Experience every day to give inspiration to us how we should live. When this is the source of wisdom that can be understood better with the life that will make us wake up every day quality. In this article I will share with readers that I see, hear, experience in daily life.

Activities such as the fracas between groups of people, assess the bad class or other groups, the group itself better rate and other groups must be destroyed, the competition among community groups in ways that not only shows the existence of imbalance in life. Living with someone requires the ability to understand something about how someone good in daily life. Many people who have knowledge about how other people live together but can not apply in everyday life.

Without action, all the things that we say has no meaning anymore. Most people can say many things, but not many people who can bring more than the spoken.

We were invited to come out of the attitude primordialisme. An attitude which considers only the most good, not good outside himself. Events around the challenges that we give serious consideration to this. How can we do love each other without having to see the differences in race, religion, race, social status. I hope we can mutually help each other.

Calculating DAY (A Birthday Reflection)

Game 5 Live

Life can be thought of as a dexterity game where we should play the balance of 5 fruit thrown the ball into the air. Soccer-ball is called: work, family, health, friends, and spirit. Our task is a must to ensure that the 5-ball is balanced in the air. Employment is a rubber ball. If we add, he will be able to bounce back. But the other four balls: family, health, friends, and the spirit made of glass. And if we drop one of them then he will be injured, scratches, broken, or even broken in pieces. And they also will not return. How do I create a balance, make all the ball does not fall?

For what we are really working with the morning wake up, and sleep late at night? To us, family, community or society? Too often work diligently to make sure to rest. People will feel lonely and empty so that means. We may often think that because we have a lot of work and business, and living together becomes less meaningful. That eventually appear are: completing the task and each business, and does not interfere with the task, because I also do not disrupt the funeral.

Our lives become weak because we value our busy comparing the value to compare with other people. Objectives and targets based on what our people. Something close to the heart is considered unimportant, be dissociated, although the part that makes us alive. Sometimes the value of life lost a lot of things we underestimate people. Leaving the swamp of life with life in the "past" in a dream or the future. Give up when there is still something that we can provide. Acknowledge the fear that we are not perfect. Meet with a heart of love that we go in life. Running, even though life appears very quickly, so that we forget where we came from and where. Missing, someone's emotional needs that need to feel valued, that we can from the people who live near us.

Every man in the world experiencing the life cycle of birth, life and eventually die. Everyone who has been living in the world this will not happen because of their own will but God. People say that life such as grass, the dry and dead. There are also states that life only come around to drinking. Who knows who the tourists are enjoying the natural beauty of the dead because the buck bomb, or know that the house will fall down and the average with the land because of the earthquake.


Throughout the ages trees Pinus

The beginning of the year always leaves a question: we will be able to welcome and celebrate the beginning of the year which will come as now? It is true that life in this world full of uncertainty. What is in now, the family, employment, health, property, even our lives may be lost from us at the time that we do not know. And more people do not rate most of the future, efforts to organize a way to reduce the fear of the future will be with the various investment plans. Until-the worry and fear because of that, many people can not distinguish between the purpose and way of life, no sense of gratitude and satisfied. Become many people to celebrate life itself.

Calculating the day, we can make life more wise, most do not realize for a while. We can remember that their position, popularity, wealth, employment, and health that can be passed. We will not depend on all of that, at least we will not be oppressed by viscosity. Spiritual Exercises of Saint Ignatius in writing: "Creation in the top surface of the earth was created for people to help him in pursuing a goal he created. Therefore, people should be used, so far as to help reach the goal earlier, and must be of goods, the thorn in his own .

Is because other people around us: children, wife, husband, parents, friends, will be passed. But they are eligible for our esteem. For if not there already, we can not do anything. And remember that time we will pass, so no need to delay returning to temporize. Our lives will pass, sooner or later, but not too important. Because the more important is how we experience life. What you want people to remember in us?

China to respect the culture as a measure of happiness longevity. Symbols used are fir tree, usually living in the mountains, and can reach four hundred years. Therefore, as a symbol of longevity, pine often appears in Chinese paintings. Emperor Qin Shi Huangdi was a team to examine the effects of various chemicals to extend the age of minerals. Many of the plant material and examined the benefits, types of exercises and when developed.

Similarly, meditation is considered as an effort to extend the age at which people find tranquility, calmness, peace with oneself, others and nature. Minister of China said that "Life tortoise, not depressed or angry, or not to be greedy, one hundred years of his life." Old pine trees that provide protection and feel more calm. To live better and more wisely, is a heart full of peace, all can pay.


Hiking peak

Being old is certain, that the choice to become adults. Very interesting if we find this expression. Correct to say that with a long time, but not necessarily the people who are older adults. If people want to adulthood, is the choice of life and business should be made for it. One of the characteristics of adult life full of wisdom and discretion. So, we ask the grantor can make the days so that we can obtain a policy. Calculate the day, this is not theory, but try to make day-to-day which means we skip and learn about life. We have to change from time to time.

Life is beautiful, especially if we know where our position. Unfortunately we can not always see the plan behind the events in our lives, particularly painful and difficult, if we receive. We tend to run away, avoid this problem, and eventually find fault of others. Therefore, when our joy colorific days, we should not be proud, and we will forget themselves, selfish, and loose control.

In the case of spiritual life, St. Ignatius revealed that, within us there are three forces that affect the mind and how to act, namely: our own nature, spirit and good, and evil spirits. Therefore, to make decisions, not only aware of the purpose of our lives, but also need to distinguish the various movements of the spirit.

Paul G. Stoltz a climber, in his book Adversity Quontients said that the climber is not capable of conquering the mountain must all through a long process. There are three main characters from the climber: first, Quitters, a climber who imprison directly after the intention to see or hear their own circumstances. Second, champers, the climber who does not continue to the top, because it already has a beautiful place before he reached the peak. Third, the cruisers, the climber who has conquered the rounded top of the mountain.

Challenges of life such as mountain, the characters also have three people, including: back and fled from the track, broke down in the middle of the road, or continue forward. With Feeling in the form of knowledge, ingenuity, skill, and spirit (spirituality) is expected to be a means to achieve the return step forward "from the mountain" in the life of each of us.